Abby

say that i that's a good question i think they would say that i'm probably i go from being very independent to being a little bit too needy i'm like i'm a anxiously attached person so i think i'm drawn to like the independence of the beginning and i like like having our own careers i like having our own space but then it hits a certain point and i start to be like well why aren't we

like doing the partnership thing more.

Why am I not becoming a priority?

And I think that can probably be challenging for them.

Yeah.

Yeah, I don't think that my exes necessarily did anything wrong either.

I think it's just like we've figured out a mismatch in style.

But then so the reverse is happening now with the stable, emotionally present guy where he's very much pursuing me and very much showing me the relationship potential.

And it's making me like, I don't know if I just don't trust it or.

Yeah, which one do I pick?

So would you just probe him around what does he actually want out of life and partnership and everything?

Or would you just like put forward what I want and see how he reacts to it?

Or both?

No.

Yeah.

I'm not sure what I want, but I do know that I want like commitment, whether that's like, I'm not looking to go.

Yeah.

I do know that I want commitment long-term.

Yeah.

Yeah.