Abby

oh yeah that's good snaps like i'm snapping here's the thing you have to actually be willing to work on it because it's like and there's some i mean that that is some things you could maybe decide like i am not willing to work on this anymore yeah like that's valid but it's that's as simple as it's like are you willing to work on it yeah now there's the things that are like maybe you shouldn't work on this anymore like

you know what i mean i i honestly think that you kind of hit the nail on the head there and we pretty much can just end the podcast there thanks for tuning in everybody people have to be willing to like one person yeah i feel like a lot of times in these marriages where are like one person gives up one person is like i've been working i've been working on this for so long yeah and you're not putting any effort yeah so it's like what is the point anymore and i can see where you i mean

heck, I'd probably come to that conclusion if it was like, if this wasn't a two-way street, you know what I mean?

And so, um, obviously so many things in life complicate it.

I think kids are probably the biggest thing that complicate it.

Yeah.

Yeah.

We haven't been divorced either because we are only seven years in or six and a half.

To get to the average?

I would have thought a lot of people bailed like within like year one or two.

No, I think men are more prideful.

Like they're like, I don't want to wave the white flag.

Like I want to be the one to call this.

Because.

I don't want to say this because I literally just sound always terrible.

I don't want to be man-hating.

They think with their pee-pee.

I bet these are women that aren't.

Who's got the time?

When you have children, who's got the time to go sleep around?