Abby

and the desire okay you are right though because i think it says 18 to 29 but i think i think by age 29 if you look at this graph it looks like it's moving closer and closer towards men what happens at 29 is women start to have kids and here's the thing here's why i think men hop up then because men are starting to get a little shallow their woman is going through so many body changes well i think hormonal changes so they're like i gotta bail and find someone that

I was taking a much more shallow approach.

I think they're just like, oh, they're pregnant, postpartum, they're breastfeeding.

Things aren't looking the same.

And so they want...

They want a new specimen.

Who wants to tell the family that they're splitting up at Christmas dinner?

October's still fine.

I feel like that's probably, I feel like it starts to dip in November.

But here's the thing.

It's not like they made that decision most of the time, probably November, December.

It's like it's from fractures for years and years.

And that's why I think the most important muscle you can exercise in a marriage is the resolution muscle.

Every little conflict can be like potentially a little fracture in the marriage.

And so those things I think are the things that add up to a divorce eventually rather than necessarily like,

one major event that just like, you know, just brought the whole thing down.

We had a resolution last night.

I feel fine bringing this up because it was me.

I was clearly the problem.

I was being...