Abby

But also it's like, yeah, this bigger picture thing of like we are establishing our life together, like where and how we're going to do it and what we intend for this to look like.

I can see where that...

Because it's one thing to say these things when you're dating and engaged.

But it's another thing when you've gone through life a little bit more.

Like you're allowed to change your mind.

And I think that's what happens probably in that three to five years.

It's like, okay, well, I know we like dreamed about having this many kids.

Or we dreamed about starting now, but I'm not ready.

Or I don't...

I got my way.

Wait.

So it sounds like every single year is a hard period because you said one to two, three to five, five to eight.

Oh, okay, okay.

I think they're probably, like, just speculating on data.

Like, why we see these, like, jumps.

Yeah.

None of us are living unique lives.

I was going to think that was the best year.

They didn't say that they were only studying people.

They probably have a better population to study research.