Abby

Well, they say you have to grieve.

your marriage that you had every time you have a new kid or anything, something, anytime something big happens in your life, that marriage is done.

A new marriage is starting.

You have to rebuild your marriage.

You can't just try to carry the same marriage into that new phase of life.

I feel like I need to keep mine private.

He would have been like, yeah, it's done, brother.

And we learned from Tony Robbins.

No, but it's so refreshing because I do think that the culture is pulling you, especially moms, to put the kids first.

Put the kids first.

And it's like, it's dangerous.

This doesn't mean that you're not taking care of your children, taking really good care of your kids, but it means you're taking amazing care of your marriage.

And I agree.

I felt that way as a kid when, like – I mean, I've experienced that.

And so I do think, like – we can circle back to, like, the hardest part for me, I think, in our marriage was when we were just on completely different pages about, like, where we wanted to be.

Like, location-wise.

And I just felt so much guilt.

I talked about this on Always Here, but I felt so much guilt because I –

felt like I was in the way of you experiencing your dream life.

Because I wasn't experiencing, like I was like, I just don't think I can thrive here.