Abby

And like, what matters is that we've committed to each other and through that commitment, we're also shaping one another and therefore becoming more compatible to each other.

But that's because we committed.

Did that make any sense?

Okay.

No, I don't think that's true.

I think you could commit and also stay stuck in your ways and not work on your marriage.

But we're committed to this.

And that's where you find the marriages that you're like, we're staying for the kids.

We absolutely are going at each other's neck every day.

But I don't think that necessarily means the same thing.

But it's also like you can commit and then also committing to the every day.

Yeah, that's a different conversation.

Yeah.

Sorry, not to dismiss what you said.

That is true, but that's not exactly the point I was making.

It's one thing to commit the day of your wedding.

And say like, we are committed and we're staying together no matter what.

And then go about the rest of your marriage and not change anything about yourself as a person.

And then go at each other's necks every day.

It's another thing to commit every single day to your marriage.