Abby

And therefore, I say when you commit every single day, you're growing in compatibility.

In that first example, you're not growing in compatibility.

You're just staying committed.

incredible i feel like you'd be stronger than 90 of marriages if you do that 100 i'm throwing stats out there left and right okay next up we have marriage is unrealistic because people change over time strongly disagree let's go and i think because people change over time is why marriage is so freaking cool well and that's why it can grow stronger and that's why it can and it should grow stronger yeah you're going to change so why not choose to change in a direction that you want to go in

Yeah.

I think about a tree with their roots.

They grow around each other.

They keep getting deeper, but they're intertwined.

I'll agree.

Well, I think I do because first of all, if we're looking at history, it wasn't even an option for women for so long.

So it's like, I mean, and I feel like give up is given such a negative connotation, but it's like, no, I genuinely give up because this person is not there for me.

Next question.

Fake it till you make it.

Honestly, yeah.

I'm going to give a silly example, but try...

Trust me when I say that this can be used in deeper scenarios.

So sometimes when we're mad at each other, we've talked about this a lot.

We'll play a card game together.

We'll play Monopoly deal.

And that is an example of faking it till you make it.