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Abigail (Abby) Marsh

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
450 total appearances

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Hidden Brain
Radical Kindness

And I thought maybe how humble they were about their choice to donate was sort of just a quirky little bug.

Hidden Brain
Radical Kindness

But I now believe it's an intrinsic feature of the decision to help other people.

Hidden Brain
Radical Kindness

Many donors I've worked with, I would say most donors, including Harold,

Hidden Brain
Radical Kindness

have told me that they're happy to take part in my research.

Hidden Brain
Radical Kindness

They're glad I'm doing it, but they're pretty sure I'm not going to find any differences between them and other adults because there's nothing special about them or anybody else who wants to donate a kidney.

Hidden Brain
Radical Kindness

It's just a function of having the right information, being in the right place at the right time.

Hidden Brain
Radical Kindness

It's something anybody could do.

Hidden Brain
Radical Kindness

And I've had many altruists reassure me that there's nothing special about them.

Hidden Brain
Radical Kindness

And that to me makes perfect sense because if you really do believe that you're the most special person, why would you want to share with somebody less special?

Hidden Brain
Radical Kindness

That doesn't make any sense.

Hidden Brain
Radical Kindness

The most special person should have all the kidneys.

Hidden Brain
Radical Kindness

But if you're such a humble person that you don't think you're any more special than anybody else, it does make complete sense that you would say, well, why should me, who's not in any way special, have all the kidney resources?

Hidden Brain
Radical Kindness

It really makes much more sense to allocate them among anybody who happens to need one.

Hidden Brain
Radical Kindness

I'm familiar with Danny Trejo from his role in Spy Kids, where he plays a villain, as he often does in the movies, because he has this very gravelly sounding voice and a craggy face and looks very forbidding.

Hidden Brain
Radical Kindness

And so he usually plays villains in the movies.

Hidden Brain
Radical Kindness

And so how did he come to your attention as an altruist?

Hidden Brain
Radical Kindness

Well, he was in the news for something very altruistic and heroic that he did.

Hidden Brain
Radical Kindness

He was running errands, I think, near his home one day when he witnessed a terrifying car crash when a sedan next to his car collided with an SUV and it resulted in this chain reaction that flipped this SUV upside down and inside was trapped a little boy who I believe had special needs along with his mother and his grandma.

Hidden Brain
Radical Kindness

And Trejo, as is often the case in these situations, reacted immediately.

Hidden Brain
Radical Kindness

He could smell gas trickling out of the wreckage of the cars.