Adam Lane Smith

a skill set to let others assist you.

But if you're not doing that, then here's what's going to happen is your fiance is going to sit there for the rest of her life like that assistant I had at her desk, twiddling her thumbs, terrified, waiting to get fired or divorced in this case, waiting for you to not need her and cast her aside.

If you can allow her to be useful to you and really complete you and be your chief operations officer, then her calm, settled, rested self will join you in that relationship and build with you.

But until then, you will drive her nuts.

Wow.

Right.

That is good to know.

What does a woman bring to the table?

And then you close the door in her face and never bring anything.

It is.

We are meant to fit together.

We are meant to fit together.

Yeah, no, you're not going to.

And that would be treating your fiance like an assistant.

You want to treat her like a co-executive who works with you.

Correct.

An executive who works with you, who has a different role than you do.

Your job as the CEO is to make decisions, but her job is to help you inform those decisions so that they're proper.

Her job is actually to get in your face.

tell you when you're off track.