Adam Lane Smith
๐ค SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Yes.
What if you talk to your wife the way you talk to your COO?
And then like this light bulb goes on, they go, oh, wow, I can do that.
And I say, well, you have to do that.
Oh, OK.
And then they take those skills and they apply it to that relationship.
Instant turnaround, like a couple of weeks.
And you see their marriage satisfaction go from three out of 10 to six out of 10.
And six out of 10 is actually a sweet spot.
You don't want above like seven or eight, by the way, your nervous system.
That's a whole other conversation.
They don't they don't let that woman step in and be a CEO.
Her job is to sit there and look pretty so that he provides for her.
She's almost like a vending machine for children.
And then she just sits there so that he can look at her in the corner while she's on the shelf.
That's almost the role that he has with her.
And that's why it's failing.
Yeah, not are they a good or bad person.
You don't mean that, but I mean, maybe you do.
But when I judge people like that, I mean, is this someone I should be around?