Adam Lane Smith

And then, one last piece.

I want part of our prenup, even a non-binding legal side, I want part of our prenup to be a contract about how we will conduct ourselves as a couple, how we will work as a team, what we're building.

This is probably not a legal side that a lawyer is drafting, this is you guys doing it on your own, but that's an additional aspect.

This is the marriage contract.

What's fascinating in ancient Jewish culture, actually, this is really cool, is they would build a marriage contract and then they would frame it

and color it in gold and set it in the bedroom of the couple displayed of this is our contract and how we will live inside our marriage.

That's something that couples can be doing.

I highly recommend doing this.

Well, I've had a lot more time to do that.

That's all.

You'll get there.

Okay.

You probably are blunt because you're not adding context.

Right.

If you're blunt with no context, their brain fills context.

And if you have 65% insecure rate, their context will be negative.

So then they'll say, why is he saying this to me like this?

Why is he hurting me like this?

Why is he scaring me?

Oh, because he doesn't care about me.