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Adam Lane Smith

πŸ‘€ Speaker
1176 total appearances

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Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

You don't have to fight for a cent.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

You have everything.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

I want us to have a rolling savings account that every year I deposit money into so that you always have a nest egg that you can always rely on.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

And if you choose to share that with me, cool.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

But if not, if we ever split, that's yours.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Cash in hand, right?

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

If we have kids, I want us to build in a custody agreement right now that we will take care of each other because we love each other.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

We'll do 50-50.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

I want that so we don't fight about that.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

I also want in there that maybe if you're taking care of the kids, I add...

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

extra financial incentive to your thing, right?

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

A lot of celebrities do this.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

I want to beef that up and I want to reward you for your diligence because I'm going to be making the money, but you're helping me achieve that.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

I can't hit those highs without you.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

So I want a contract that shows your value on paper and makes you safe.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

And at the same time, if anything bad ever happens, I don't want to have to fight with you when we're mad at each other.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

I want us to have a good contract and a good peace of mind so we always know.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

And then...

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

I want us to look at that contract and look at how serious the consequences would be to both of us and never go down that road of separation ever.

Digital Social Hour
Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

I want us to use that as incentive to stick together.