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Adam Lane Smith

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1176 total appearances

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

So your brain will either fight and attack.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Some people get really aggressive and open-moving and posturing and angry.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Some people fawn and say, okay, I will only get 30%, please don't hurt me, immediately, as soon as the conversation starts.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Some people run away and say, I can't have this conversation.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Some people try to sneak and manipulate.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

People do different things.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

That's leading into what we call confrontation.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Conflict to confrontation.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

No, conflict to cooperation.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

So invite her into cooperation.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Be the CEO.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

That's you as the CEO going to your executive partner and saying, hey, look, chief operations, hey, we're going to have to put a contract in place.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

It's going to be great for both of us.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Here's why this is what we're going to do.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

And then tell me your thoughts, right?

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

I'm not throwing the contract on the table.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Let's talk about this and build this contract together.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

And then here's when she says, well, how does it protect me?

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

Well, you have guaranteed safety, guaranteed financial safety, babe.

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Adam Lane Smith: Attachment Styles Are Ruining Modern Relationships | DSH #1751

I want it in there that you will have guaranteed financial safety so that if anything bad ever happens...