Alex Cooper

There's so much in dating that can be misconstrued because of our past, because of things that have, you know, triggered us in the past or not worked in the past or worked in the past.

Right.

And so if he has had this one thing and you're so focused on it, but what if what about this?

His apartment is spectacular.

He's clean.

He's organized.

He is on time for everything.

He's so respectful of you.

He is making an effort.

He has a great job.

The way he talks about his relationships in the past is not like she was a crazy fucking bitch.

Like.

You know what I'm saying?

It's like, what is the full picture?

And I always feel like whenever someone's writing in, because I feel like I would have done this in the past, when you're writing something like this and I can't help but wonder if there's other things that he's doing in this relationship with you that is alluding to.

Or that is making you feel like shit.

And he's only ever had a relationship like the longest being six months.

You know what I mean?

It's like that is the tipping point and the biggest thing you can use to kind of call out this feeling of unease.

When if that really was just the... If I had met Matt and Matt had every quality he had when I met him, but his one thing was he had only had six months relationships, I would have...