Alex Cooper

read the room a little bit and been like, okay, I don't love it, but let's see if everything else is perfect and really working, then fuck that shit.

I'm down to be the first long-term one because everything else is great.

So context clues, but I don't love it.

And I could get shit for that, but I...

I don't love it.

Because you know what?

I look back at one of my relationships that was one of my more stable potential relationships where like I was in love and it wasn't toxic.

But he had not really had long-term relationships.

And there was just a different feeling.

And maybe it's like a guy thing.

I don't know.

But like I could just feel...

that when we like are the building towards a future just felt kind of like this, not even a factor.

Whereas meeting someone like a Matt, it's like he had a foundation, he had goals, he had a vision for what he wanted his life to look like.

And he talked about that very openly, talked about things he didn't like in previous relationships, was very open about things he loved in previous relationships that he respected of the people.

So like, I think I need someone who has the ability to,

talk about their past in a way that's not hiding or fearful of it and somewhat I needed someone who was like very honest and open and was mature and so my fear is six months gives like what the fuck is six months sorry but like six months means like you're just getting close and then it ends

Because six months is like low key.

It's a little short.

Like at least if it was a year, I'd be like, all right, bro got close to like it always ended right before they moved in together kind of vibe.