Alex Cooper

If my husband cheated on me and I think I would need to know, like, are you in love with her?

Because then we have to be done, right?

Go be with her.

That's you.

Right.

I would ask.

Yes.

I see.

And some people would be like, I don't want to know because no matter the answer, I'm willing to work through this.

Right.

and the shame it that's so and we don't have we can't be so judgmental about that no we can't it's like i've had people on the show before that have come on and talked about staying after cheating and the way the internet has just like torn these women apart and it's like but it's their life and everyone's like well you don't respect yourself and you and it's like but

Do you know that?

Do you really?

You don't know that.

This person may have done so much work within that relationship to repair it.

Like, why are you so triggered?

It's her life.

Is there, Esther, a timeline in terms as a couple therapist that you're like, repair should fall within a little bit of this timeline?

If not, you can't keep going back and forth of like, you cheated.

I need these answers.