Alex Cooper

But he recently told me he's never had a relationship longer than maybe six months.

He says he was focused on working for a long time and just hadn't met the right person.

Is this actually not that weird and I'm overanalyzing or is getting to your mid thirties with zero long-term relationship experience a legitimate red flag?

I love and hate these questions where I'm like, there's so, oh, there's like almost like too much to say.

I'm trying to put myself in your shoes because when I met Matt,

I loved that he had long term relationships, had experience, you know, wasn't I wasn't going to be like the first to really be like, let's move in together.

And he's like, I've never lived with a woman like that kind of freaked me out in previous relationships because I

felt like there was an immaturity to it even if it wasn't either of our fault it's just you're going through things in a way that like it's nice when you both have done it before to a capacity because then you just get to be better versions of yourself at doing it I do think men in their mid-30s

Only having six months relationship, I would say, wouldn't have probably been for me.

However, I don't think it's a complete 100% right off red flag.

Like anything I usually say on this podcast, I do think that you need to have context clues like they teach us in school.

And you know what?

Every fucking time a teacher told me back when I was young and trying to not fail out, it's like, just look for the context clues, Alex, when I would go up and be like...

Can you help me?

And they're like, just look at the context clues.

Like, fuck you and your context clues.

Give me the fucking answer, bitch.

But now I happen to be that annoying fucking teacher that's like, just look at the context clues.

But it's true, especially when it comes to dating men.

Because I think when you're dating a man...