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Alex Cooper

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Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

What do you think is just behind that?

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

I completely agree with everything you just said.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

But specifically, I think what is very applicable to my audience is like we're looking for the perfect and we're so hyper fixated on because there's such an enormity of options out there.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

Because back in the day, our parents never had the access we have.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

They didn't know that there was a guy named Mike in L.A.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

who had a six pack that they can stock.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

Like it was just the people that were in their proximity.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

And I would love if you could expand a little bit more on like,

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

being inundated with relationship content online and through pop culture?

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

Like, how has that warped our idea of love and dating and what it's supposed to look like?

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

It's like people are not...

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

as predictable as these apps are.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

And that is becoming somehow a negative in our eyes.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

We're like, it should just be, you know, black and white.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

But really, that used to be what was so divine.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

Can we also focus on, I love how you said, like the feeling of these people are going out there and then there's this anxiety.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

But I think something so beautiful about first dates and first experiences or second dates or third dates is sometimes the butterflies we feel when we meet someone and there's the unknown and again, the unpredictability that shouldn't scare us.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

It should excite you to some degree.

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

How can someone tell the difference, though, between anxious butterflies and then when it's actually a warning sign that maybe something is off?

Call Her Daddy
Esther Perel: Cheating, Codependency, & Connection

Yeah, it's like...