Alex Cooper

Like what should someone really be actually focusing on if they're looking for a long term person in their life?

Right.

I agree with you.

It's almost like you can't tell people exactly what to look for because I agree it needs to complement you.

Is there anything quality wise that you actually think we should start to devalue, though, as a society that people are looking too much for and that's not what we should be focused on?

Let's talk about

friction yes because I know that you are passionate about needing to invite a little bit of friction into our dating lives what is the benefit of doing that and can you explain what that even means what that even means when I said to you before that our

Well, and I was going to say, I think it's important to to clarify, like, what is the difference between good friction and bad friction?

Because I don't want any girls going like, oh, wow, we need to fight.

We need to fight to feel the thrill.

It makes me think a little bit.

And I feel like we all have those people in our life where you kind of hear that friend be like, oh, my partner and I never fight.

We never even get in little arguments.

Like, what is your take on that?

You know, it's interesting because... Follow me?

Not only do I follow you, I'm already in my head being like, that needs to be clipped and every human being needs to watch that clip because what the fuck?

No, no, no.

Like it's so real when you're talking about how in relationships, like one is more afraid of being abandoned and one is more afraid of losing the sense of self.

Like if everyone just pauses you, I know who I am in the relationship with my husband and that dynamic.

And like, I'm sure everyone.