Alex Hourigan

What did she say at the start about the sex?

She said, I slept with a notorious F-boy.

Rookie mistake, I know.

But in my defence, I'm really good at casual flings and don't ever get attached.

So she didn't describe the actual sex.

That's the thing.

And our wonderful producer actually shared an interesting insight with us.

So in response to can a fuckboy really change, so specialist psychologist and self-identifying lesbian fuckboy lover said,

Lauren Haywood, yes.

You read that right?

I love her.

How funny is that?

Oh, my God.

So she says fuckboys often act the way they do because that's the behavior that was modeled to them from their parents or other trusted adults.

She also says the hot and cold behavior can represent a desire to be close with someone but an inability to know how to effectively let emotional barriers down or a particular discomfort with feeling vulnerable, right?

And then she also says that many fuckboys fall into the anxious avoidant attachment style.

Yeah, like standoffish at first but then you can push through like the hardened exterior maybe to get into a soft gooey center potentially.

Yeah.

That's a tricky one.

I think you need to ask yourself, what do you like about this person?