Alex Hourigan

Yeah.

Is it his personality?

Is it the connection that you have?

Is it the sex and the intimacy?

No, I hate that.

Oh, my God.

That is so fucking shit.

As, like, a words of affirmation slash every love language girly, that would really, really hurt me.

But I'm also, like...

There would be some people out there who that would be enough for them.

Like there would be some person out there who would be like, I show my partner that I love them.

I'm a firm believer that, like, every time you say goodbye to somebody that you care about, you should say I love you to them.

What, no one else does that?

But that's kind of like what I was saying before is that I know that there are some people out there who genuinely are like, I don't need my partner to say I love you every single day.

I know that.

In the same way that I know that some people like I don't need to be, I don't need to hug people every single time I see them.

Sorry, keep going.

I was just going to say if you, but if you are the sort of person that does need to be told that you are loved.

other love languages of like quality time or acts of service yeah or gifts yeah gifts also it's not a given lots of lots of people exist in loveless relationships like it is not a given and i know that people have different love languages and that's okay to have to ask your partner to say i love you more is not a fun thing to navigate and i really feel for her

But to have them not listen and even try is what makes it even harder.