Alexandra

He really prioritizes us and my happiness.

And he took it and ran in a great, you know, he's like, I want to do some research on this.

I want to talk about slowing it down and things being less about, you know, the props and all of the wild stuff.

And I kind of noticed myself, because this was last night and it continued this morning, sort of being like, well, it's getting stressful again.

Now it's like too much pressure again on making it something better.

you know, else, you know, like where he, he wants so much to please me and satisfy me that, that I'm starting to think like, yeah, maybe there is a little bit, like, I just want to take a break from having sex at all.

Well, I know that there's a lot of emphasis on how happy he is with our sex life.

He was in a previous marriage.

Okay.

Oh, yeah, I think it's kind of back to the question you asked me a few minutes ago.

It's me putting it on myself that it wouldn't be enough.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Less valuable, less lovable.

Right.

You know, he would lose interest, that kind of thing.

Right.

Tired of feeling that I have to perform to be intimate.

I think there's a lot of,

positive reinforcement surrounding the things we've done and, you know, his enjoyment and excitement.