Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

So that would be my recommendation for you because you want to know you did everything in your power.

And then that's the beauty of it.

You do everything in your power.

Then there's so many things that are not in your power, but you don't have control over that.

You don't have control over his actions, but you do have control over what you do with your time and who you choose to spend it with.

So ask yourself those questions and hopefully you're able to get closer to an answer.

But the biggest question out of all of them is the first question I asked you.

If he was to never change, if he had a crystal ball and I said, you know what?

He's never going to change.

He will never come around ever, ever, ever.

If we just knew, what would you do?

Because I think if you're equipped enough and ready enough, you'd be like, I'd just pull the pin today.

The only thing worse than, you know, like you don't want to stay another week, another six months, another year.

For what?

For what?

If you knew it would never change.

Your time is the most valuable thing you will ever fucking have.

So make sure you use it wisely and when you know the answer, don't dilly-dally fucking take the reins of the situation.

I was going to say situationship, lol.

Of the situation and, yeah, take control back basically.