Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

Whatever the fuck his needs were, he wasn't communicating the cross saying, for whatever reason, my needs in this relationship are not being met.

Everyone's got needs in a relationship and when they're being met and when they like the person, they stay and it flourishes and it grows.

But there was something going on in him that he thought not only am I not having my needs met, whatever the fuck those needs are,

But I'm also not going to tell her about it.

This wasn't a decision that happened overnight.

He's thought about this for a while.

I'm not saying years.

I'm saying like months.

Okay.

You do not end a serious relationship.

out of thin air because when you come up to, when you come to that conclusion, it's because you've gone back and forth and back and forth and thought, and maybe I'll try and make it work.

Maybe this, maybe that.

And that whole fucking time, he never raised it with you.

okay so you have to remind yourself that as as much as you think well like but how how and why and how and why unfortunately he was going through this whole process of that relationship breakdown alone in his head he never gave you the chance to remedy it because he didn't want you to he didn't want you to try and remedy it he wanted to get to the point where he was ready enough to leave without the chance of like but maybe we'll remedy it maybe

You know, I'm going to make her feel bad or this or that or maybe this or maybe that or maybe I'll feel bad and then I go back or whatever.

So it's so fucked to hear, but we have to hear it.

They just didn't have their needs.

You weren't meeting his needs.

And sometimes you can never because you're just not aligned as individuals.

And it feels like, oh, but it was, but it was perfect.