Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

not letting you move forward and proceed and be happy.

Okay.

So when I talk about giving less of a fuck, that's referring to things that you have no control over, you can't change.

And therefore you're trying to move forward in the most productive way possible with your life.

And what I mean by saying care more is I think a lot of people have this really nonchalant attitude about everything in their life.

And when I say a lot of people, I don't have the stats on that.

I'm just talking about people that I've observed in my life.

It's this, yeah, cool, whatever, this, that.

You know those people that, especially teenagers, teenagers are great at this, they're too cool for anything.

Oh, yeah, whatever, yeah, I'm too cool for that.

And they just never get passionate about anything until they're a bit older and they become a bit more mature and they realize, oh, my God, okay, they start to learn.

But this is something that you can bring into your life earlier and it's something that starts to make you feel really good.

Get passionate about things that you are involved in.

There's no point doing something half-assed.

There's no point having one foot in the door here, one foot in the door there.

If you're going to do something, how can you invest more into it?

How can you go all in on this thing, whether it's a friendship, even in dating?

Dating is a prime example of this.

I find it so sad that because there's

I did a whole episode on this, but this whole idea that there's all these choices that people then are like, and they're just a bit nonchalant about all the options on the table, in the app at least, these perceived options.