Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

They start to notice there is a line that Alexis will not allow people to cross.

And she'll either remove herself from the situation or she'll say, this is the last time that I'm going to put up with that.

But I will never tell someone how they have to treat me.

I'll never demand anything.

I'll say, this is what I provide for myself.

And if someone's going to cross it, that's perfectly fine, but I'm not going to be a part of it.

And then when you put the focus more on this is about me, I'm not trying to boss people around and tell people and beg and plead and whatever, then people will either respond or walk away.

If you get stuck in this back and forth of an unhealthy dynamic with friends, with partners, with employees, with colleagues, with family, where it's just like begging, but I want you to treat me this way.

Like, unfortunately, there's going to be times in your life where people are not going to treat you the way you want to be treated.

And the issue is that a lot of people will start to degrade how they feel about themselves because they stay in the scenario and they keep saying, but I'm asking you to do this.

I'm asking, I'm asking.

People don't always do what you ask.

They just don't.

Because people don't view situations the way you view them.

People don't share the same morals that you have.

People don't have the same life experiences that you have had.

So everyone's going to come from a different angle to a conclusion, right?

So you can't be sitting in life expecting you have to treat me this way.

You have to know what to do if someone is refusing to treat you in a way that you want to be treated.

Okay.