Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

It's kind of just thrown out there and, you know, luckily for you because sometimes it feels like you've just been completely embarrassed and you're mortified but ironically for the narcissist,

When this happens, every normal person with half a brain around them sees this as a giant waving red flag for what it is and everyone feels uncomfortable on your behalf, mind you.

So if this ever happens to you, just know that 99% of people listening are like, fuck me, that's so uncomfortable for you.

Like they're not agreeing, being like, oh my God, how embarrassing.

They're just feeling for you being like, what a joke that they're behaving this way.

Number 10, commenting on your physical appearance loud enough for everyone else to hear that.

That just goes without saying.

Number 11, carrying on like a fucking pork chop.

But if you try to correct their behavior, they would become so volatile that it's going to ruin the day for everyone.

This is really common in like a family get-together.

or a family holiday or anything where you've got a lot of people that have put in the effort and they want a nice time, okay?

So say you've all gone out for a birthday dinner or you're all away for the weekend and you've got all these activities planned.

They then start to become extremely inappropriate with their behavior.

They're carrying on.

They might be being really rude and insulting or they're a sook or things haven't gone their way and they're becoming extremely painful.

And normally you would say to someone, you need to pull your fucking head in.

We're all here together.

Pull your head in or just sit this one out and take time out for yourself.

But you're about to ruin everyone's day.

We're here to have a nice day.