Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

Don't just sit and mope at home for that night if you can avoid it unless you're actually craving it and you need it.

You want to be getting out and replacing that void.

So then you start recreating that balance in your life.

You start to feel like, wait a minute.

And then lastly, which is going to like tie on to what I'm saying, you always have to remember that 50% at least of what you enjoyed in the relationship is what you brought to the table.

So think, wait a minute, half of the fun that I was having is because of the energy that I was bringing to the table because of my humor as well or because I make great conversation or because I'm able to get this energy out of somebody else.

So at least 50% of that I can then bring to an interaction with my friends or an interaction with my family or another date or whatever because

So it's not all gone.

It's just one aspect of that relationship.

But you are still 50% of any relationship that you're in and you bring a lot of what you enjoy.

You are providing that.

You just see a side of yourself that comes out in a date or when you're dating someone or in a relationship that makes you feel really good.

And we enjoy that and then we miss it.

But it still exists within you and you can then bring that version of yourself out, not just romantically, but in many other areas of your life.

So give yourself the opportunity to do that and create some fun things for you to do, whether it's a fucking escape room, going to the beach, going for a long walk, whatever it is that you like to do.

start to replace that void with where your best self can shine and you really like yourself in that energy.

And then you're going to feel a lot better, a lot faster.

You're going to move on from that person much, much, much quicker.

Great question though.

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