Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

You can still have adventure and exploration in your life in your 30s.

It might look a bit different.

But I believe that there's always a need for us for the rest of our lives to have a little bit of adventure, right?

in our lives.

It can't just be all habits, all structure, all monotony.

We need a balance of both.

When we have good, for example, good habits and good structure and good routines in our life that make us feel stable, it allows us to have more flexibility to be adventurous.

And both feed into themselves quite nicely when you have a balance of the two.

If you have no adventure, you resent your routines and you resent your habits and your structure.

If you have all adventure, you feel very unstable and you feel like you're being left behind and you're nor here nor there because there's

zero stability in your life so we need to strike a balance with both so if you're saying oh I should have done more of this exploration in my 20s you're always going to want to have a bit of adventure in your life but what does adventure look like for you I know for me what I found fun and adventurous back in the day I wouldn't find fun now I used to thrive guys I loved I

I loved working behind a bar until 6 a.m.

when I was 18.

I was like, I'll never want to quit this job.

It's the fucking best fucking thing in the world.

Like, borderline hearing loss when I'd be walking home.

The birds would be tweeting.

People would be going on their morning runs.

And I'm like, this is fucking unreal.

Now I'm like, can't think of anything worse.