Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

It can seem like, oh my God, if they don't accept me or if they, I'll die, I'll die, I'll die.

So I have to put up with this crazy bitchiness and drama and they didn't talk to me and they didn't mess with me.

And it consumes your life.

But if you were to zoom all the way out and if you were to maybe get a job offer in a completely different country or city and move and then you have all these experiences that expand if you were, you looked back at that really toxic friendship circle, you'd laugh.

I'm telling you, you would laugh because you'd be like, wow, perspective is everything.

And I was telling myself that that's what mattered and that's where my, what I was worth, where my time, my energy, my emotions, everything was being funneled into this kind of drama.

Now I realize that nothing is worth more than my peace of mind.

So now that I've zoomed out, I realize that I'd actually rather be alone than entertain this shit.

Okay.

And you can apply that to so many areas of your life and it comes from wisdom.

Okay.

It comes from wisdom.

So I don't want you thinking, oh my God, I should have done this when I was so much younger.

We all should have, we all should have, but we didn't have that insight.

We didn't have that

i finally got so sick of it i've had it up to here and if you're watching the video version of this on youtube my hand is waving above my eyebrows i've had it up to here with this i'm done okay that is peace of mind and when we talk about identity and self-relationship what am i going to prioritize so separate to peace of mind which i hope every single one of you guys listening puts that one number one on your list you don't have to but that's my desire for your life moving forward

But separate to that, what's other priorities?

And again, look at your 20s.

You could be, if someone said, wishing I had explored more in my 20s, perfect.

So you could say, I'm telling myself that I can't do that in my 30s because I need to be more responsible.