Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

So let's start with theme five.

Now this is identity and self-reflection.

This is who you are becoming internally in this new stage of your life.

Now, the kind of questions that I got for theme five, I'm going to kind of rattle a bunch of them out that you guys sent to me.

There were a lot of repeats, a lot of people in the same boat.

So this is

where you are grieving your 20s, wishing that you explored more in your 20s, how you have confidence and direction in your 30s when you are already feeling left behind.

We spoke a bit about that timeline thing last week.

Self-care in your 30s, what your priorities should be, how you should be feeling in your 30s because you want to look at your 30s as the time in your life where the identity begins to shift, okay, from this external validation to

to feeling more aligned internally in your life.

Okay.

This is where you're really beginning to develop that relationship with yourself.

For me, I like to think that I had a good relationship with myself in my twenties and it was fine.

It was decent.

It was sound.

There was a lot of like learning curves in my life, but I can say for sure, I didn't actively work on it and get much better at it until I entered my thirties.

Okay.

Now,

This is really important when we look at all the themes.

This one is who do you want to become internally?