Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

And I think the most important question to ask yourself is what are my priorities now?

This has to be a really conscious question that you ask yourself now.

If you don't ask yourself this question, you're just going to be repeating more of the same from your 20s.

What are my priorities now?

And I think based on my personal experiences and based on many people that I know in their 30s and also you guys who have written in, one of the biggest shifts that we have as humans from our 20s to our 30s is the desire to prioritize peace of mind.

So I think it's really healthy for you to also make that determination, make it very clear and say, this is going to be my priority moving forward.

I need to focus on peace of mind.

But what does peace of mind look like?

It is not wanting to be involved in unnecessary drama.

Now, I'm not talking about the fun venting or the little gossip here and there.

I'm not talking about that.

I'm not a saint.

We all dabble a little bit here and there into drama.

feeling this way.

But I'm talking about actual drama where you're hanging out maybe with a friendship group that all they want to do is backstab each other.

All they want to do is have one person who's more important than the other and leaving someone left out and pushed out.

Marital dramas, family situations where every time you go there, you feel so stressed and overwhelmed and

and you don't feel remotely good about yourself every time you leave.

Workplace environment, that's the kind of peace of mind that I'm talking about.

You know, not having so much on your plate, kind of trying to... So if you know that peace of mind is your priority and it's something that you can actually name and know what that looks like, then it's something that you can really work towards.