Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

Could it be planning three getaways a year?

Whatever it is, whatever fits within your lifestyle, your desires and your budget.

You have to kind of explore and look into just because you have responsibilities.

You might have kids now.

You might have a mortgage.

Just because you have these things, it doesn't mean that adventure has gone out the window.

You still need to tap into that need of yours.

Because if you abandon that need and say, oh, well, the time is gone now.

It's only when I was 21.

Then you're going to always be living in the past.

You have to say, what does it look like for me now?

And it could be something like...

Maybe you've always been someone who wore relatively conservative things and your version of adventure now is I'm going to redo my entire personal style.

I'm going to finally start wearing the shit that I think looks really awesome but I've always been too timid to wear that and that could be how you are adventurous.

You could start an anonymous blog and that's your adventure.

You could start whatever the fuck it is.

But I'm saying adventure is always a need and we have to figure out what that need is for us and feed it, okay?

So that's another priority.

Clarity is also a huge one.

This is the and then the rest you can kind of brainstorm on your own.