Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

I like looking a certain way.

I enjoy this aesthetic.

Do it.

But when it comes down to how do I feel about myself when no one else is around, I hope that you're able to be like, I've earned being a good person in this world.

I feel like I've earned these things.

I have shown up for myself.

I like my own company when I'm alone, right?

No matter how fucking hot you are, that's not going to influence you liking your company when you're alone.

So when we start looking at coping with appearance changes, the more you like who you are,

The appearance change is not going to be so painful, okay?

You might say, oh, God, yeah, like, okay, I'm, you know, looking this way.

I preferred how I looked when I was younger.

But it's not going to be the be-all, end-all.

It's not going to make you feel bad about who you are or really upset about, you know.

You're going to be like, well, that's aging.

And it is a privilege to age, by the way.

Well, I don't know if it's a privilege.

I could do a whole episode on the word privilege, to be honest, a whole fucking episode because –

I feel like the word privilege is thrown around so much more than what the actual meaning of the word is.

Privilege is like an advantage over others and I don't like it when people use the word privilege for something that all people should be entitled to have, okay?