Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

People want to be around you because you're just a good fucking vibe, but you're a good person.

You're not only there for them in the hard times, but you also celebrate the wins in the good times.

You've earned that, right?

Now let's look at other things you've earned.

I look at education as a huge one.

What can you educate yourself on?

I'm not talking about tertiary education, it can be that.

I'm talking about what can you get good at?

What can you hone in on your craft that you cannot buy, borrow or steal?

right those are the things that the more you whenever you look at how can i improve my life think what's something that i can do that i cannot buy borrow or steal it has to be earned okay this is why working out and physical exercise is so good mentally because aesthetics aside if i was to run a half marathon the only way to get there is through hard work it's through effort consistent effort and showing up again and again and again and again so i've earned it right

There's no other fucking way I can get there.

With physical appearance, I can buy it.

I can, you know, pay for certain things that are going to make me look better, which is fine.

I'm all for that.

Go for gold.

I will actually not since before I was pregnant, but I, you know, would get Botox here and there.

I'm like, fucking go nuts if that's what you want.

But that's not what you're getting your value from.

That's the important thing.

If you want to do it because you're like, oh, I do want to look nice.