Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

That to me makes me think that these relationships

are there not necessarily because it's out of love, but it's there to serve a different purpose and you need to figure out what that purpose is, okay?

Yeah, I've got some friends in my life that are very hot and heavy with their friendships and it's like all or nothing, all or nothing, all or nothing.

And then all of a sudden I'm like, oh, how's that friend that you introduced me to?

And they're like, oh, we don't talk anymore.

Oh, no, we don't talk, oh, no, no, no.

And, you know, it takes really like two to tango for these relationships where when I first met these people, it was really hot and heavy.

And I'm like, oh my God, is this my best friend for life?

And then I realized that that's how they were with everyone.

And I thought, well, if I want longevity in this friendship, I need to know how to steer it.

Otherwise it's also going to burn and go up in flames as well.

Like all their other friendships have, you know, you can still have good friendships, but you've got to look at a pattern of behavior and who is the common denominator here and why.

Okay.

But great question.

And I really thank you for sending that through because, yeah, it's awesome.

Next.

The ex-boyfriend thing, I'm not going to really touch too heavily on that.

I think when it comes to a breakdown in relationships, there's many, many, many, many, many reasons why people might not contact you even if you leave on good terms.

You know, the start of a new relationship, the start of all... So the ex-boyfriend thing, I think it's more...

There might be more foundations as to why he's not contacting you anymore.