Alinda Small
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So a lot of research that's been done on falling in love is that it's almost painful because it's obsessive and you become all consumed with the idea of someone.
So when you're not with them, then there's this longing and desire for them and we all have different levels of desire and missing, but that's one of the big symptoms that you feel when you're really connected to someone because everything's kind of at that, you know, pleasure pain barrier and you just
Feel this longing, desire for them.
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Love and
On Triple J.
So that's the big question, isn't it?
You know, what's love and how do you know when you're in love?
So the science that we know, the psychology behind it, is when you first meet someone, there's a state of limerence and so the hormones go crazy and that's what draws us together.
We know that that lasts between six and twelve months, sometimes slightly longer.
Um and that's very intense and very exciting and that's what brings us together.
And then we go to a more intimate phase of a relationship.
Um so
You know, the hormones kind of I guess convolute the way we feel 'cause it's very exciting.
Um but is it real love?
I think that's probably the the ultimate question that none of us really know and it's all subjective.
So what one f person defines as love
Maybe different to someone else.
What
Yeah, so the first phase is always lust because that's when hormones kick in and that's why we're drawn to someone.
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