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Allegra

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
537 total appearances

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Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

We're hearing stuff.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

People pointing out that doesn't really sound like something that you would consent to.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

Are you sure that you are okay?

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

We're talking 2017.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

So like Fifty Shades of Grey was big at this time.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

I feel like he was trying to portray it that we had kinky sex.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

And that was so not what happened.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

I was being portrayed as someone that was easy and fast.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

And I did not like that because that's not what had happened.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

I did not choose to give myself to him.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

He took it.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

I was processing through things with college friends and getting acquainted with the word rape as it relates to what happened to me and trying to be okay with that label.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

By that Sunday evening, the 28th of May now, I had come to terms with it from processing through with friends and was ready to take steps.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

That's correct.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

I spoke with the president of Justin's fraternity that he was trying to join because I thought I don't want him in this space.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

That was my main reason for fawning and trying to appease him in the first place is that I thought I was going to have to

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

And if he gets a spot in this house, their house was down the street on the same street from our house.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

You could walk there in about a minute.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

I was just like, he's going to be close by if I don't do something.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep17: Chapter 4: Weaponizing the Patriarchy

In my sorority, we were required to go to other Greek organizations, philanthropy events, like we had to do a certain number of those every semester.