Allegra

And that was so not what happened.

I was being portrayed as someone that was easy and fast.

And I did not like that because that's not what had happened.

I did not choose to give myself to him.

He took it.

I was processing through things with college friends and getting acquainted with the word rape as it relates to what happened to me and trying to be okay with that label.

By that Sunday evening, the 28th of May now, I had come to terms with it from processing through with friends and was ready to take steps.

That's correct.

I spoke with the president of Justin's fraternity that he was trying to join because I thought I don't want him in this space.

That was my main reason for fawning and trying to appease him in the first place is that I thought I was going to have to

And if he gets a spot in this house, their house was down the street on the same street from our house.

You could walk there in about a minute.

I was just like, he's going to be close by if I don't do something.

In my sorority, we were required to go to other Greek organizations, philanthropy events, like we had to do a certain number of those every semester.

So we were all very interconnected and I just didn't want him around or around other women.

And if he got into this fraternity, he would have unlimited access.

He was a pretty sweet guy.

He was surprisingly easy to talk to and very gentle with me and basically portrayed to me that this was the final strike in a series of red flags that they had already felt from him.

There was nothing that had been reported to them that was obviously as extreme as this, but other women in other houses had had kind of strange interactions with him that did get back to the fraternity.

They weren't super keen on having him join, and this was the nail in that proverbial coffin.