Allie Harding
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Podcast Appearances
What it is, we're actually like, are you feeling too much here?
But that's why we compliment each other so much is because it's brain and heart constantly going back and forth.
And if you lead too much with one of them, you're going to be off track.
That's why women get in their feelings and they start going crazy and throwing glitter in men's apartments when they cheat on them.
I'm like, dude, play the long game.
No glitter.
Just leave.
Why?
I think you can be both.
I think respect yourself, have the standards that you do, have the dignity that you do, but like, don't sit here and expect that someone's going to meet your standards if they clearly can't.
Like, I feel like women want men to meet them where they're at.
And, but if that's just not who they are, that's not who they are.
You picked wrong.
You know?
And it's there's no shame in admitting that you picked wrong.
I've done it a million times, you know, but it's like I'm also I'm willing to see the signs for what they are in the beginning and leave when I know that it's not going to work rather than stick around and villainize someone who wasn't actually bad.
I just stuck around too long to the point where I didn't like them.
And I don't think that that's like right.
You know?
I feel like whatever they want, they're allowed to have.