Allie Harding

I feel like some women, I mean, meet what you expect.

If you're able to give everything that you're asking for, then sure, you can ask for it.

But if you're going to sit there and slack and you just want to be a little housewife but you don't want to do anything and you expect him to pay for everything and do everything, I just don't think...

And I used to get the question a lot where it's like, what do you bring to the table?

And that was always a question that would piss me off.

But then I started really looking at it.

I'm like, I get it.

What are you bringing?

And so I tried to make it into I wanted to be the partner that I wanted.

So I built myself into a person.

I took three years to do it where it was like I knew there were certain times that I needed to work on things in order to be the best partner that I could be.

And I believe that where I'm at right now, I'm doing my best, but also I'm not going to be able to practice being in a relationship until I'm in one.

And so I've faced a lot of challenges I didn't know that I needed to work on since being in one.

But I think that that's just part of being human.

And every relationship comes with different things.

So standards, I mean, set them, but.

Don't be mad when people can't meet them if you're not also meeting the standards that you expect.

Really?

Yeah, I didn't know that.

Yeah.