Allie Harding

Yeah.

Yeah, that's crazy.

I didn't even know that.

Yeah, but it's like also how are you going to have all of these expectations to find, I mean, the top 1%, but then like...

What are you... That's where it brings up the question where it's like, yeah, what do you bring to the table?

Like, why do you deserve that?

What kind of person are you that deserves that?

Well, and I'm like, you're really brushing off all of the people that could potentially be really good for you just because you want it a certain way.

I mean, that's just a hard reality check to some, like, girls that I'm like...

Yeah.

Well, and I'm just like, why don't you instead of expect to get the life out of somebody else, why don't you just build it yourself?

I mean, that's just kind of where I'm at.

Yeah.

I don't ever want to be in a position where somebody else has control over where I live, how much I'm able to spend.

I don't.

god forbid because then you're stuck i don't ever want to feel stuck in a relationship where i can't leave because what am i what am i gonna have you know so it's like everything that i've built is something that i get to take with me whether i'm in a relationship or not interesting see so you're traditional mixed with entrepreneurship and independence but i'm not gonna hold it over someone's head like i built the life that i wanted yeah but also like i'm just looking for like

not looking for, I have counterpart that just like is meets me there.

As long as you can take care of yourself, that's all I ask for, you know?

So I'm like, I've got me handled.

I've had me handled, but it's like, just, you know, I'm not going to pass up someone that I really like just because, you know, they don't make seven figures a year.