Allison Kuch
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first heard Dec 2024
last heard 17 Sep
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at least for like this current time because what better way like it's a great excuse to like go out and like be independent outside of your marriage outside of being a mom and find what you love doing like i just i think that like for a year you're pregnant and then for the year your postpartum and finding yourself outside of that is so healthy not only for you but also for your family yeah
I mean, one of them, yeah. One of them is I'm training for a marathon. I don't like running. I don't know that I want, I think it's just that I would not, I power to you. It would not be me. I need a reason to run. I'm just like mid run. Like, do I actually want to do that? And like, Well, I'm getting my pink back. So it's just part of the journey.
I think that there's a fine line between sharing and oversharing. And for us, we share so many parts of our life. I mean, the NFL, how I felt about my husband getting a job and losing a job and then everything in between. So when it comes to me and my experience, there's nothing really off limits.
I am kind of an open book and I think a lot of women, I'm able to help women in that way and other people like struggling through things. When it came to my daughter, we kind of went back and forth. And then I think we settled on the idea of like, well, let's just not share her for a while and see how we feel about it. Initially, postpartum, I was like, this is the cutest baby ever.
Like the fact that I can't show people the cutest baby ever, like I'm struggling. But I think it was really healthy and it was a good experience. like very good for us that it was the separation of, okay, we're taking this video for us, for ourselves, for her to see later down the line. And it never felt like, oh, we're pulling out the camera and it felt icky in a way.
It always felt very like, oh, I'm just a mom recording my child. And not to say that people who share their child online are doing it only for that. But I do. I like that we kept her. We've kept her private. I did for her first birthday post a video of some of the memories with her face in it. And I was a little anxious to do that. But I think that. I feel very comfortable.
Me and my husband feel very comfortable not showing her day to day, not showing her every move, like not using her for videos. And the fact that people have seen her face now, I feel very comfortable with. And I... I think it got to a point where it was then like a game, like covering her with an emoji or covering her in this way. And I was like, okay, I want to keep her private, but not a secret.
And I think now I've gotten to the point where I'm like, okay, if people see your face, it's okay. But like, I'm not going to go and make a video of like Scotty's day in the life or what have you not, just because it's something I'm not comfortable with. Right. And I feel very confident when it's to keep her private.
How have people reacted to seeing Scotty in person? Yeah, it's funny you mentioned the tall thing because the tall thing matters. It does. Because people note it. I mean, Isaac's a big, big dude. And then I'm also tall blonde. So when we are in public, I feel like we are very noticeable, especially for like the height. You can see us from a mile away.
And with our daughter, I feel like we've had mixed experiences before.
Totally.
Yeah, and it was the Los Angeles Chargers. But I have to think, was it because we were there for four years? Was it because we stayed here year round? I think all those factors definitely come into play because every place I've had a really good experience with other women. Yeah. Definitely some teams who emphasize family more than others, but I think that just kind of comes to the territory.
The Chargers had a lot to do with the family outside of just the guys. I think maybe being owned by the Spanos family helped with that. There were a lot of activities for the women. There was weekly hangouts. We also lived near the beach. So like yoga on the beach, maybe that helped with that.
We also were drafted with a group of men who had girlfriends and they also got engaged and then got married along the same timeframe. So I think that had to help with that. And everybody, my husband got drafted with, stayed for the full four years, which is very rare.
Right. And so whenever people ask me, oh, are there clicks when it comes to like an NFL team with the wives and women? I'm like, no, it's really just like, don't have kids, have kids. Have time, don't have time. Exactly. It's like, hey, can we get a play date? Because I need a glass of wine and I need somebody else to drink it with. Another human being to speak, another adult to speak to.
You would find the phone number in like a wad at the end of football season in like a shoe or something.
And that's God's work. I have to say, on behalf of all the girls who have traveled around to different teams, people like you make the experience so much better and so much less lonely. And I know that like I've been reached out to via DM and I get like random chats like, hey, I got your number from so-and-so. Like, hey, if you need anything.
And those are the girls that I was gravitated towards because I'm like, oh, you're okay reaching out to a stranger and offering X, Y, and Z. Like, this is great. This is helpful. And I feel like even having one point of contact that you can be like, hey, is there like a good bagel place around here?
Absolutely. I think so many people kind of forget that is that these players are going through all these things and ups and downs and what have you not. But also the wives and others and family members are also going through that. So I think even when I talked about it on social media of like, oh, yeah, there's a family room, there's this, there's that.
And people like, oh, my God, you should just stick to football. I'm like, no. Hold on. I'm not even talking about him. I'm talking about me and what I need. And I'm like, moving to a new city is never easy. And so having a group of women or even having something as simple as like, oh, hey, I'm going to go down to the family room for five seconds and just take a break.
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