Alyssa Nobriga

Otherwise, because if you judge it, you're further stuck with it. Or if you identify as somebody that... doesn't have boundaries, it's harder to change that because identity is hard to change. So it's like, oh, I have a pattern up until now, but it's not who you are. So just those two, don't identify, don't judge. It's helpful.

But I want to ask you a few questions about one is like, is there a question you feel like people should ask themselves before getting into a relationship?

But I want to ask you a few questions about one is like, is there a question you feel like people should ask themselves before getting into a relationship?

But I want to ask you a few questions about one is like, is there a question you feel like people should ask themselves before getting into a relationship?

Where you're abandoning your truth. You're abandoning yourself. Yeah. And what I also hear you saying is if you're judging something, you can't hear the wisdom within it. So instead of being like, I judge nice guys. Well, it's like, well, maybe not. Let's get a little bit more curious. Maybe it's the manipulation that you're a no to and your body can feel that.

Where you're abandoning your truth. You're abandoning yourself. Yeah. And what I also hear you saying is if you're judging something, you can't hear the wisdom within it. So instead of being like, I judge nice guys. Well, it's like, well, maybe not. Let's get a little bit more curious. Maybe it's the manipulation that you're a no to and your body can feel that.

Where you're abandoning your truth. You're abandoning yourself. Yeah. And what I also hear you saying is if you're judging something, you can't hear the wisdom within it. So instead of being like, I judge nice guys. Well, it's like, well, maybe not. Let's get a little bit more curious. Maybe it's the manipulation that you're a no to and your body can feel that.

So without judging it, you can hear the wisdom inside of it. But this leads me to another question that I'm actually really excited to have with you because there's somebody in my life that I love and I won't call them out. But I was talking to them and this is very common that I'm hearing from people where they're like, yeah, I like this person, but I don't feel that excitement.

So without judging it, you can hear the wisdom inside of it. But this leads me to another question that I'm actually really excited to have with you because there's somebody in my life that I love and I won't call them out. But I was talking to them and this is very common that I'm hearing from people where they're like, yeah, I like this person, but I don't feel that excitement.

So without judging it, you can hear the wisdom inside of it. But this leads me to another question that I'm actually really excited to have with you because there's somebody in my life that I love and I won't call them out. But I was talking to them and this is very common that I'm hearing from people where they're like, yeah, I like this person, but I don't feel that excitement.

And so I don't know if I should move forward with it. And so I'm curious your personal framework around when is somebody compatible to move forward with versus when is it just being compared to that initial attraction? Because sometimes people like this person I'm thinking in my life, they're like, yeah, I felt it with my ex person.

And so I don't know if I should move forward with it. And so I'm curious your personal framework around when is somebody compatible to move forward with versus when is it just being compared to that initial attraction? Because sometimes people like this person I'm thinking in my life, they're like, yeah, I felt it with my ex person.

And so I don't know if I should move forward with it. And so I'm curious your personal framework around when is somebody compatible to move forward with versus when is it just being compared to that initial attraction? Because sometimes people like this person I'm thinking in my life, they're like, yeah, I felt it with my ex person.

And I want that aliveness to be able to go further into that relationship versus when it like, what is compatibility versus that initial kind of chemistry and attraction so that people can differentiate?

And I want that aliveness to be able to go further into that relationship versus when it like, what is compatibility versus that initial kind of chemistry and attraction so that people can differentiate?

And I want that aliveness to be able to go further into that relationship versus when it like, what is compatibility versus that initial kind of chemistry and attraction so that people can differentiate?

And I'm so close to them that they can't hear me say that. So I'm going to send this to them. But I think this is also going to serve a lot of people. Yes.

And I'm so close to them that they can't hear me say that. So I'm going to send this to them. But I think this is also going to serve a lot of people. Yes.

And I'm so close to them that they can't hear me say that. So I'm going to send this to them. But I think this is also going to serve a lot of people. Yes.

Yeah.