Alyssa Nobriga

And he started laughing and then I realized it was him. But anyway. That is so funny. He's a jokester. He's like, wait a minute, you're really... He's like, pranks on you. That's so sweet.

And he started laughing and then I realized it was him. But anyway. That is so funny. He's a jokester. He's like, wait a minute, you're really... He's like, pranks on you. That's so sweet.

And he started laughing and then I realized it was him. But anyway. That is so funny. He's a jokester. He's like, wait a minute, you're really... He's like, pranks on you. That's so sweet.

Another big question that I know people have, especially when I was a couples therapist, people would ask this all the time. So everything's great in terms of the relationship, but they're not sexually attracted to them. One of the most common questions is like, can you build that chemistry or does that mean that you're not compatible?

Another big question that I know people have, especially when I was a couples therapist, people would ask this all the time. So everything's great in terms of the relationship, but they're not sexually attracted to them. One of the most common questions is like, can you build that chemistry or does that mean that you're not compatible?

Another big question that I know people have, especially when I was a couples therapist, people would ask this all the time. So everything's great in terms of the relationship, but they're not sexually attracted to them. One of the most common questions is like, can you build that chemistry or does that mean that you're not compatible?

Yeah. And I think that when we go into kind of the surface level conversation about how often we're having sex and if it becomes blame and shame, then we stay in the defense versus speaking from the vulnerability underneath. Like I miss you or I'm scared that you're not attracted to me anymore. So the willingness to speak that vulnerable truth is what creates more intimacy and connection.

Yeah. And I think that when we go into kind of the surface level conversation about how often we're having sex and if it becomes blame and shame, then we stay in the defense versus speaking from the vulnerability underneath. Like I miss you or I'm scared that you're not attracted to me anymore. So the willingness to speak that vulnerable truth is what creates more intimacy and connection.

Yeah. And I think that when we go into kind of the surface level conversation about how often we're having sex and if it becomes blame and shame, then we stay in the defense versus speaking from the vulnerability underneath. Like I miss you or I'm scared that you're not attracted to me anymore. So the willingness to speak that vulnerable truth is what creates more intimacy and connection.

And then sex can be a reflection of that rather than staying at the surface level. I'm tracking how much we're having. The other person feels defensive about that. And then just really, back and forth.

And then sex can be a reflection of that rather than staying at the surface level. I'm tracking how much we're having. The other person feels defensive about that. And then just really, back and forth.

And then sex can be a reflection of that rather than staying at the surface level. I'm tracking how much we're having. The other person feels defensive about that. And then just really, back and forth.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

And then sex is a reflection of it. Yes.

And then sex is a reflection of it. Yes.

And then sex is a reflection of it. Yes.

Yeah. So what I hear is that you feel like couples specifically, they had it in the beginning, they can try new things, go to your website, see some examples, and that can be a date night, all the things, but like that can be a way to understand each other and understand your relationship now versus what it was however long ago, try new things and really rebuild that

Yeah. So what I hear is that you feel like couples specifically, they had it in the beginning, they can try new things, go to your website, see some examples, and that can be a date night, all the things, but like that can be a way to understand each other and understand your relationship now versus what it was however long ago, try new things and really rebuild that