Alyssa Nobriga
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Yeah. So what I hear is that you feel like couples specifically, they had it in the beginning, they can try new things, go to your website, see some examples, and that can be a date night, all the things, but like that can be a way to understand each other and understand your relationship now versus what it was however long ago, try new things and really rebuild that
And then what about for if they're single and they're dating somebody and it's like they're everything, they check off all the boxes, but I'm not attracted to them?
And then what about for if they're single and they're dating somebody and it's like they're everything, they check off all the boxes, but I'm not attracted to them?
And then what about for if they're single and they're dating somebody and it's like they're everything, they check off all the boxes, but I'm not attracted to them?
If that's a non-negotiable, that's a real deal breaker. Yeah. That's what it is.
If that's a non-negotiable, that's a real deal breaker. Yeah. That's what it is.
If that's a non-negotiable, that's a real deal breaker. Yeah. That's what it is.
Yeah. Clear. And I know you've been talking about opening up to your partner, having really honest conversations. And yet some people don't do that because they're shame or they don't want to hurt their partner's feelings, or they just don't know about their own body, their own pleasure. Are there any practical tips for couples to open up and have deeper conversations with their desires?
Yeah. Clear. And I know you've been talking about opening up to your partner, having really honest conversations. And yet some people don't do that because they're shame or they don't want to hurt their partner's feelings, or they just don't know about their own body, their own pleasure. Are there any practical tips for couples to open up and have deeper conversations with their desires?
Yeah. Clear. And I know you've been talking about opening up to your partner, having really honest conversations. And yet some people don't do that because they're shame or they don't want to hurt their partner's feelings, or they just don't know about their own body, their own pleasure. Are there any practical tips for couples to open up and have deeper conversations with their desires?
I love that you bring curiosity and playfulness into it. It doesn't have to be a heavy conversation. And if you get in a cul-de-sac where you're feeling awkward and you can't navigate it with your partner, then go to a therapist or a coach or somebody to help navigate.
I love that you bring curiosity and playfulness into it. It doesn't have to be a heavy conversation. And if you get in a cul-de-sac where you're feeling awkward and you can't navigate it with your partner, then go to a therapist or a coach or somebody to help navigate.
I love that you bring curiosity and playfulness into it. It doesn't have to be a heavy conversation. And if you get in a cul-de-sac where you're feeling awkward and you can't navigate it with your partner, then go to a therapist or a coach or somebody to help navigate.
I mean, one of the things that I have an incredible marriage with my husband, 16 years, and I really pride it on the work that we've done, but the work that we continue to do. Like we regularly do therapy, not as a reactive, but as a proactive. It's one way that we create deeper intimacy and connection and just keep that alive.
I mean, one of the things that I have an incredible marriage with my husband, 16 years, and I really pride it on the work that we've done, but the work that we continue to do. Like we regularly do therapy, not as a reactive, but as a proactive. It's one way that we create deeper intimacy and connection and just keep that alive.
I mean, one of the things that I have an incredible marriage with my husband, 16 years, and I really pride it on the work that we've done, but the work that we continue to do. Like we regularly do therapy, not as a reactive, but as a proactive. It's one way that we create deeper intimacy and connection and just keep that alive.
Because if we don't prioritize looking at things that got pushed under the rug, it's just going to fester, you know?
Because if we don't prioritize looking at things that got pushed under the rug, it's just going to fester, you know?
Because if we don't prioritize looking at things that got pushed under the rug, it's just going to fester, you know?
Yeah. Yeah, really.