Alyssa
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I've showed him pictures of you with your daughter.
And he thinks I do that to control everything and to control him.
He thinks I do that.
So I'll do what Natalie does.
Like, I'll let him know because I don't want him to have to deal with a massive tantrum or like an issue and whatever.
So I do it to like.
Yeah, he has.
He hasn't lately, but he has because I've gone away and he's like, oh my God, I get why you can't fold the laundry instantly because you're taking care of our kids.
I understand now why you can't clean up after supper because the kids want to play a game with you.
I'm like, exactly like you.
That's where I'm getting like, things don't just happen immediately.
Like I'm one person.
I don't have like 10 people helping me around the house.
So he does he he gets it to a point.
he used to be like that.
And then now I think that the last two years this happened, I think he's, he doesn't.
So I think it's just, yeah.
And then him getting his own place and him taking the kids, he thinks, oh, well, you get to have a break.
And then I'm like, that's not,
What I want?