Alyssa

I've showed him pictures of you with your daughter.

And he thinks I do that to control everything and to control him.

He thinks I do that.

So I'll do what Natalie does.

Like, I'll let him know because I don't want him to have to deal with a massive tantrum or like an issue and whatever.

So I do it to like.

Yeah, he has.

He hasn't lately, but he has because I've gone away and he's like, oh my God, I get why you can't fold the laundry instantly because you're taking care of our kids.

I understand now why you can't clean up after supper because the kids want to play a game with you.

I'm like, exactly like you.

That's where I'm getting like, things don't just happen immediately.

Like I'm one person.

I don't have like 10 people helping me around the house.

So he does he he gets it to a point.

he used to be like that.

And then now I think that the last two years this happened, I think he's, he doesn't.

So I think it's just, yeah.

And then him getting his own place and him taking the kids, he thinks, oh, well, you get to have a break.

And then I'm like, that's not,

What I want?