Alyssa

And you were like, three years is way too long because now he's going to,

Play the long game and he's going to enjoy that three years.

And so you told her like, you need to take that down to like a year.

And then he knows that you're being serious.

And so I'm like, well, maybe six months.

Waiting for it to explode.

I talked to my therapist yesterday about it and I was like, she thinks six months is too long.

She thinks he should know where he's at or I should know what I want to do less than that.

So she was like, maybe in January when we have our meeting, like we figure out like where he's at, because if he's still at, I don't know, then we just need to call it.

Well, he feels like when I'm there with the kids that like,

I don't let him parent or whatever.

Oh, 100%.

They haven't done that yet.

They haven't had that yet because it was just so recent.

Yeah.

Yep.

No, I think it's fucking stupid.

I think he's just using his like issues to like cloud his judgment and,

When I have been working on myself and I've been so good at, like, not being like that and not trying to, like, tell him how to parent or be.

Well, I'm the mom 24-7.