Alyssa

Like I was like, oh, my God, Jesse reminds me of my husband so much.

But then when I heard Jordan talking, I'm like, OK, maybe I'm not like Jordan, but like I can understand.

But then when he was like, oh, well, my family and I, we always talk to each other.

Yeah.

Yeah.

But then him going to therapy.

And wanting to try to work on it is like, okay, well, maybe there's like a glimmer of hope.

But I've also heard you be like, there should be hope in relationships.

Yeah, yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

yeah no you're right and I agree like that relationship sounds like they have a lot there's more work that they're putting in and he's putting in and then yeah my husband is he's just more like I can't take care of you or the kids if my emotional well-being isn't

Yeah, and I remember, like, my therapist says that to me all the time.

She's like, you've done so much and you're so loyal and you're so loving and you've come a long way from, like, when I first met you when

you put in the work and he's doing the same thing.

Oh yeah.

I can see that.

Yeah.

So as like friend advice, would you say to keep holding on to hope or would you just-

Well, he would rather be a better dad than be a better husband.