Alyssa

Yep.

No, I think it's fucking stupid.

I think he's just using his like issues to like cloud his judgment and,

When I have been working on myself and I've been so good at, like, not being like that and not trying to, like, tell him how to parent or be.

Well, I'm the mom 24-7.

I've showed him pictures of you with your daughter.

And he thinks I do that to control everything and to control him.

He thinks I do that.

So I'll do what Natalie does.

Like, I'll let him know because I don't want him to have to deal with a massive tantrum or like an issue and whatever.

So I do it to like.

Yeah, he has.

He hasn't lately, but he has because I've gone away and he's like, oh my God, I get why you can't fold the laundry instantly because you're taking care of our kids.

I understand now why you can't clean up after supper because the kids want to play a game with you.

I'm like, exactly like you.

That's where I'm getting like, things don't just happen immediately.

Like I'm one person.

I don't have like 10 people helping me around the house.

So he does he he gets it to a point.

he used to be like that.