Alyssa

She is like, you've done it.

For how long?

So.

No.

And I can strongly say that, but the, but the problem is, is because he never wanted to do therapy like separate.

And then our couples counselor was like, I think this counselor that I know would be like really beneficial for you to like, to your husband, he said separate.

And she like, was like, she will do great.

She can talk about your childhood trauma because I feel like that's been coming back up because he's been

he's been bringing that up too.

Like how his trauma was in childhood.

And yeah, he's just like really in a dark place.

So he is doing therapy.

Like he, he's only gone once, but he goes again on Wednesday and he has another one booked in January.

But of course this is going to be such a slow process because he works the way.

Well, yeah, he's doing it remotely tomorrow.

So I was like,

do you think you could do a phone call with her?

Like, I don't think it's a good idea to go a month without talking to her.

If you want to like really dive in and get to the deep of it.

And he agreed.