Amanda Doyle

And often you think you're devoted to the person, but you're actually more devoted in the relationship to the perception of yourself as good and sane.

So you realize that you can actually take that with you. You're not losing as much in letting go of the relationship as you think you stand to lose, which you think is your whole perception of yourself.

So you realize that you can actually take that with you. You're not losing as much in letting go of the relationship as you think you stand to lose, which you think is your whole perception of yourself.

So you realize that you can actually take that with you. You're not losing as much in letting go of the relationship as you think you stand to lose, which you think is your whole perception of yourself.

Yeah, we get caught in the question of whether we are justified in feeling bad as opposed to just saying, do I feel bad? And if I feel bad, it doesn't matter.

Yeah, we get caught in the question of whether we are justified in feeling bad as opposed to just saying, do I feel bad? And if I feel bad, it doesn't matter.

Yeah, we get caught in the question of whether we are justified in feeling bad as opposed to just saying, do I feel bad? And if I feel bad, it doesn't matter.

Maybe I'm crazy. I'm a goddamn cheetah. That's it. Robin, is there a way that you could run through the three types of gaslighters for us? Because I had never heard about the Glamour gaslighter. And I think that people are probably in their heads seeing the Intimidator gaslighter, but I think the other two are really illuminating for folks.

Maybe I'm crazy. I'm a goddamn cheetah. That's it. Robin, is there a way that you could run through the three types of gaslighters for us? Because I had never heard about the Glamour gaslighter. And I think that people are probably in their heads seeing the Intimidator gaslighter, but I think the other two are really illuminating for folks.

Maybe I'm crazy. I'm a goddamn cheetah. That's it. Robin, is there a way that you could run through the three types of gaslighters for us? Because I had never heard about the Glamour gaslighter. And I think that people are probably in their heads seeing the Intimidator gaslighter, but I think the other two are really illuminating for folks.

And the way you described that was so huge to me because, okay, so we got the good guy. He agrees to go. Fine, we'll go to your mom's. We'll go to your mom's. He goes to your mom's. He sits there.

And the way you described that was so huge to me because, okay, so we got the good guy. He agrees to go. Fine, we'll go to your mom's. We'll go to your mom's. He goes to your mom's. He sits there.

And the way you described that was so huge to me because, okay, so we got the good guy. He agrees to go. Fine, we'll go to your mom's. We'll go to your mom's. He goes to your mom's. He sits there.

pouty stone-faced in the corner and doesn't interact with anyone then you can tell he's not engaging he's not having a good time get in the car pretend like nothing's wrong you say what the heck with that he says what are you talking about what are you talking about it's never good enough for you i agree to go to your mom's I sit there, you are projecting this stuff that I didn't have fun.

pouty stone-faced in the corner and doesn't interact with anyone then you can tell he's not engaging he's not having a good time get in the car pretend like nothing's wrong you say what the heck with that he says what are you talking about what are you talking about it's never good enough for you i agree to go to your mom's I sit there, you are projecting this stuff that I didn't have fun.

pouty stone-faced in the corner and doesn't interact with anyone then you can tell he's not engaging he's not having a good time get in the car pretend like nothing's wrong you say what the heck with that he says what are you talking about what are you talking about it's never good enough for you i agree to go to your mom's I sit there, you are projecting this stuff that I didn't have fun.

I sat there and I enjoyed myself and it's never good enough for you. So you can't ever put your finger on the actual receipt for why you feel upset. So you feel even crazier because it's unprovable.

I sat there and I enjoyed myself and it's never good enough for you. So you can't ever put your finger on the actual receipt for why you feel upset. So you feel even crazier because it's unprovable.

I sat there and I enjoyed myself and it's never good enough for you. So you can't ever put your finger on the actual receipt for why you feel upset. So you feel even crazier because it's unprovable.

Yeah. Because you're like, I can't explain it. It's just his energy. And then the glamour one, it is so subtle too, because the person who's showing up and quote unquote doing things for you, but they are not connected with what you need or want or even the way that you feel.